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- Lieutenant Ripley
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Advice
I know this is like the worst place to ask for advice because you guys are all douchebags, but why not let's give it a try.
So I want to reconnect with someone, k? Asked them to meet up last Saturday and they said they had some things planned so maybe another day. I get that. But this same person texts me yesterday and asks me to a movie and two mins later says they forgot they had to do something and apologized. Okay how the fuck do you forget you made plans before asking someone to hang out?? I wonder if they really want to make time for me or if I am just another spoke on the wheel to them. I am considering accepting their next offer and then asking them in person wtf? They are absent minded as fuck so idk if bein savage about it would work well. Advice pls thx
So I want to reconnect with someone, k? Asked them to meet up last Saturday and they said they had some things planned so maybe another day. I get that. But this same person texts me yesterday and asks me to a movie and two mins later says they forgot they had to do something and apologized. Okay how the fuck do you forget you made plans before asking someone to hang out?? I wonder if they really want to make time for me or if I am just another spoke on the wheel to them. I am considering accepting their next offer and then asking them in person wtf? They are absent minded as fuck so idk if bein savage about it would work well. Advice pls thx
- Methuselah Honeysuckle
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Re: Advice
This probably explains the whole forgetting they had stuff planned. I had a fellating lover who would do shit like that all the fucking time. The difference was is they would just show up hours late instead of saying anything about having prior plans :::::::::::::::::Lieutenant Ripley wrote:They are absent minded as fuck
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Damn. Yeah, that's why I don't wanna be like you fucked up blah blah but rather be understanding, because I really do want to reconnect and be friends with this person. However, if they do that all the time that would get on my nerves for real.Nick wrote:This probably explains the whole forgetting they had stuff planned. I had a fellating lover who would do shit like that all the fucking time. The difference was is they would just show up hours late instead of saying anything about having prior plans :::::::::::::::::Lieutenant Ripley wrote:They are absent minded as fuck
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Re: Advice
I would go to the movies on my own, 'Life' looks really interesting
- Methuselah Honeysuckle
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Oh they caught shit for all the god damn time. Always had an excuse and was someone else's fault of course.Lieutenant Ripley wrote:Damn. Yeah, that's why I don't wanna be like you fucked up blah blah but rather be understanding, because I really do want to reconnect and be friends with this person. However, if they do that all the time that would get on my nerves for real.Nick wrote:This probably explains the whole forgetting they had stuff planned. I had a fellating lover who would do shit like that all the fucking time. The difference was is they would just show up hours late instead of saying anything about having prior plans :::::::::::::::::Lieutenant Ripley wrote:They are absent minded as fuck
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Correct that shitNick wrote:Oh they caught shit for all the god damn time. Always had an excuse and was someone else's fault of course.Lieutenant Ripley wrote:Damn. Yeah, that's why I don't wanna be like you fucked up blah blah but rather be understanding, because I really do want to reconnect and be friends with this person. However, if they do that all the time that would get on my nerves for real.Nick wrote:This probably explains the whole forgetting they had stuff planned. I had a fellating lover who would do shit like that all the fucking time. The difference was is they would just show up hours late instead of saying anything about having prior plans :::::::::::::::::Lieutenant Ripley wrote:They are absent minded as fuck
And yeah, I kinda want to see the new Power Rangers movie.
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Re: Advice
it's pronounced "ad-vee-chay"
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"Life" was pretty funNinny wrote:I would go to the movies on my own, 'Life' looks really interesting
- Lieutenant Ripley
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Re: Advice
I rarely go to the movies anymore. Didn't even know that existed.
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Could be anything really.
Scared of getting close again due to past issues, medical reasons or feelings of insecurity should things get ..you know, is becoming close with someone else and doesn't want to mess that up, substance related, is interested and doing the immature hard to get thing, literally stupid, secretly gay ect ect
Scared of getting close again due to past issues, medical reasons or feelings of insecurity should things get ..you know, is becoming close with someone else and doesn't want to mess that up, substance related, is interested and doing the immature hard to get thing, literally stupid, secretly gay ect ect
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"Secretly gay"Olden Polynice wrote:Could be anything really.
Scared of getting close again due to past issues, medical reasons or feelings of insecurity should things get ..you know, is becoming close with someone else and doesn't want to mess that up, substance related, is interested and doing the immature hard to get thing, literally stupid, secretly gay ect ect
Yeah, you do have some points there. I mean I want to really be patient with this person because I understand how all those are possibilities.
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horse dealies wrote: "ad-vee-chay"
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ad-vi-suh
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Are you still in high school or something?Lieutenant Ripley wrote:I know this is like the worst place to ask for advice because you guys are all douchebags, but why not let's give it a try.
So I want to reconnect with someone, k? Asked them to meet up last Saturday and they said they had some things planned so maybe another day. I get that. But this same person texts me yesterday and asks me to a movie and two mins later says they forgot they had to do something and apologized. Okay how the fuck do you forget you made plans before asking someone to hang out?? I wonder if they really want to make time for me or if I am just another spoke on the wheel to them. I am considering accepting their next offer and then asking them in person wtf? They are absent minded as fuck so idk if bein savage about it would work well. Advice pls thx
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horse dealies wrote:horse dealies wrote: "ad-vee-chay"
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No
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ok i read the first post
it could be that this person is anxious about seeing you again and thus overlooked the plans s/he had already made. or is keeping seeing you a secret from the current sex partner person
be wary
it could be that this person is anxious about seeing you again and thus overlooked the plans s/he had already made. or is keeping seeing you a secret from the current sex partner person
be wary
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